Moving On
The apathy will subside. My usual happy disposition will return.
I am moving on, finding a flat, finding a job, and doing what I like, when I like.
My motto for 2010 is “trust your instincts”. I have been ignoring myself for too long.
It feels strange to be moving on so quickly. Right now it has been less than three weeks since the separation, but it is starting to feel like it was a long time ago. All the feelings of disappointment, frustration, and annoyance I buried for the sake of compromise and living in a relationship, have replaced the reasons I wanted to make it work. At this moment I am more upset at having my happy bubble burst than losing the person I thought I would grow old with. But then my feelings change every day depending on what I’ve heard, what I’ve read, what I’ve remembered.
Ladies and Gents, if you like you should put a ring on it (not necessarily a literal ring, but make your feelings known to all concerned parties). Otherwise move on, and stop wasting time.
Thank you all for your help, concern, and best wishes. I can’t do it without you. xxoo
19 Responses to “Moving On”
Special Princess Camp high fives and panda dances.
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Ms Constantine Reply:
January 15th, 2010 at 1:43 am
I love being a princess, and I love panda dance. Yay yay.
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I’m glad you’re on the mend, lady. Many, many hugs!
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I’m so happy that you’re feeling good again. Well, maybe not goodgood, but better. Maybe you’re like the Wolverine of relationships (I know I am). And trusting your instincts and doing what you know is right for you is always a great idea.
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Hope 2010 Rocks the Casbah for you. Instincts are good trusting them is what stopped the Saber Tooth Tiger from eating us back in the day! So for shizz trust them :]
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This just makes you that much better for the next.
I needed all of my prior relationships to be ready for my husband. If he would have come along any earlier, we surely would not have made it. I still had some lessons to learn.
Here’s to new beginnings…
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Sorry, I had to post again because I saw that the my old blog address was attached. So this one is posted to the current.
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*Hugs*
Catch up soon, whenever you’re ready ok?
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<3
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You will only become a stronger person for all this <3
I'm going through a breakup now too, and i know how it can do your head in :S But I feel that women like us are strong enough to go on to bigger and better things :) All the best, girl!
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My comment didn’t post…? Grrr.
Well, basically just wishing you all the best, girl. Life has bigger, better things in store for you!
<3
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Ms Constantine Reply:
January 15th, 2010 at 3:32 pm
It was in the spam box. Argh. Too many legit comments are ending up there. :[
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Love your bum xx
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Ms Constantine Reply:
January 15th, 2010 at 3:32 pm
Love your face.
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Love you all. Thank you so much.
I hope that any of you that are hurting along with me are feeling ok today.
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How do I contact you darlin’? I want to order a necklace, if you want to make it for me :-)
I’m glad you’re feeling good right now. It’s a long journey but you’ll come out stronger and even MORE FABULOUS hehehe x
Can you please email me re necklace. Think my email will show up in this comment?! x
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You really do deserve the best Miss. Don’t compromise!
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Yes to moving on!
And I completely understand about wasting time, my cousin is/was going through the exact same thing now. And she already went through it with an ex a few years ago, he never saw a future for them, she did. She broke it off. He came back a year later…and to this day, I kid you not, sends her weekly emails. He’s been trying to win her back realizing his mistake (even bought a ring) but at this point she just wants him to go away – it’s been 4 years and he’s still going.
I agree, stop wasting time if it’s not going anywhere…but it doesn’t mean that the time spent that led up to that moment of letting go, was wasted, those experiences/moments shared will shape us and hopefully make us better for it in the end.
Hoping this weekend treats you well, hon.
xo
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Ms Constantine Reply:
January 17th, 2010 at 3:47 pm
That’s just silly. What a waste of time, it’s too hard to trust people like that because who knows what will make them do it again.
I don’t regret the last 7 years together! We had great fun, and I really did want to marry Sol. However, knowing that he doesn’t see a future for us means I can start moving on and towards someone who does want to spend their life with me.
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